Had a situation this week. I often receive resumes and leads on technical and recruiting folks. If I can't find them a place in my organization, I try to pass along to someone in the industry I know that has needs. One senior PM was looking to make a change, but because of their current companies policies, he wanted to keep his search very confidential. It's wasn't through my sources, but somehow a independent recruiter got a lead that this person was out looking.
Now, there is nothing wrong in this recruiter calling a candidate that they hear may be looking, but it was his introduction script that blew the deal. "I got word from a confidential sources, that I can't disclose, that you wanted to make a job change?".
On it's surface that this is all true, but what message does it say to the candidate?
1) My search is busted and known in the market. I'm afraid I might get fired before I can find another job.
2) This headhunter will withhold secretes from me. He doesn't trust me so I can't trust him.
The candidate ended the call very quickly told him that was rumor and he really was happy in his current job.
What about using this script: "Hi, my name is Mike Tiffany and I'm an independent recruiter. I am making sourcing calls into some senior folks within your company that may be be thinking about making a job change."
Even though I already know they are looking, I don't want to put that confidential knowledge on the table.
The key thing I always want to put into a candidates mind is that "You can trust me". Don't ever do or say anything that could change that and try always to put yourself in their shoes. Listen to your scripts and see if you pass the "trust test".